Being a mother is one of the most fulfilling roles you can take on during your lifetime. Still, no one said it would be easy. Like any other job, you’re bound to come to a point where your exhaustion will catch up to you. There’s nothing wrong with stepping away for a few days to relax and recharge. The idea of a solo mom vacation is quickly becoming a popular concept among many. Moms often come back from their solo trip feeling refreshed and ready to go back to everyday life. If you think your solo mom vacation is long overdue, here are a few tips to help you get ready.
Solo or group trip?
Everyone has different traveling preferences, and this decision can make or break your trip before it even begins. Will your solo vacation truly be solo, or will you get a few friends to tag along? There are pros and cons to both, and the best one for you is based entirely on your preferences.
Traveling solo means all of the planning and preparation falls on you and only you. For those who enjoy being in control of the vacation, this sounds like a dream come true. Others may find the responsibility too overwhelming and would rather have a few more people to help out. Traveling in a group also means having to compromise on lodging choices and itineraries. You’ll also have to compromise on smaller decisions, such as which restaurant to eat in. Are you willing to set aside your preferences for the sake of the group, or would you rather stick to what you like, even if it means going by yourself? Keep all of this in mind when deciding.
Stay connected – but not too connected.
When taking some time away from your family, there’s a delicate balance that you need to perform when it comes to communication. After all, the point of this vacation is to relax without having to worry about your responsibilities. At the same time, you’ll certainly grow to miss your partner and kids during the trip, and you should be able to connect with them while you’re away.
The best way you can balance your communication is by setting up a schedule. For example, you could schedule a nightly call with your family to catch up and check in on each other. At the same time, you can also let them know not to expect any calls or messages from you during the day. Having such boundaries can help you make the most out of your vacation while still keeping in touch with your loved ones.
Prioritize your interests.
Going on family vacations is certainly a lot of fun, but it does mean you have to make a lot of adjustments for the sake of everyone else. There may be events or places that you would love to go to, but can’t because your family isn’t as interested. This solo vacation is the perfect opportunity to do whatever you want at whatever pace you wish.
Go somewhere that’s ISN’T kid-friendly.
Family trip itineraries, especially with younger children, are often limited to kid-friendly tourist spots and activities. While many of these spots can be enjoyed by anyone of any age, not everyone is interested in spending their day at an amusement park or a petting zoo. If these tourist spots aren’t your thing either, now is the perfect time to branch out.
Go somewhere or do something that you would never be able to do if you had your kids with you. Wine tasting, for example, is a fun and new experience, but you certainly wouldn’t bring a young child to such a place.